When partners retire at different times, household income and daily routines change. Consider the stages ahead, access to super, Age Pension eligibility and each person’s expectations.
Retiring at different times can make sense for a couple. One person may feel ready to stop, while the other enjoys their work or wants to keep earning. An age gap, health needs or caring responsibilities may also influence the timing.
When one partner retires first, the household enters a period where both income and daily routines change. Planning for that period means understanding how the finances will work and what each person expects life to look like.
The conversation is easier to have before the first retirement date, while there is still time to consider different options.
Talk about why each of you wants to retire
Start by discussing what is behind each person’s preferred timing. Is it tiredness, health, wanting more freedom or a particular goal? For the person continuing to work, is that a choice they enjoy, a financial necessity or a mixture of both?
Moneysmart’s retirement planning guidance encourages people to consider timing, lifestyle and family support together. Setting out those priorities can help you see where your plans align and where you need to make room for different preferences.
If reducing hours is an option, consider whether a gradual change would suit either of you. The arrangement needs to fit the work available and the household budget, as well as how you want to spend your time.
Plan for the period between your retirement dates
It helps to look at three stages: while you are both working, while one partner is working, and after both of you have retired. At each stage, identify the income you expect, the spending it needs to cover and any savings you would need to use.
During the middle stage, compare the remaining salary after tax with the household’s costs. Include any accessible super withdrawals or other income you intend to use. The retired partner’s commuting costs may fall, but the mortgage, rates and insurance will still need to be paid.
A remaining salary may reduce how much you draw from savings for a time. Check the later stage too, when that salary stops. Discuss how you will pay shared bills and how each person will access money for personal spending, so the arrangement feels clear to both of you.
Check each person’s access to super
One partner retiring does not automatically give the other access to their super. Each person must meet the relevant conditions of release.
Common access conditions include retiring after reaching preservation age, ending an employment arrangement on or after age 60, or reaching age 65 even if still working. Turning 60 while continuing in the same job does not, by itself, give unrestricted access. Check your own position with your fund before counting on withdrawals.
If one person can access super and the other cannot, your plan needs to reflect that timing. It also helps to understand what remains invested for later, rather than treating both balances as money available immediately.
Understand how the Age Pension fits
Age Pension age is currently 67, and eligibility rules apply. It is a separate milestone from stopping work or being able to access super. The years before eligibility need their own funding plan.
Services Australia generally assesses a couple’s combined assessable income and assets. The working partner’s earnings can therefore affect the other person’s pension entitlement. Being the only partner applying does not mean you are assessed as a single person.
There is also an important distinction for a younger partner’s super. While they are under Age Pension age, super held in accumulation and not paying a super pension is generally excluded from the income and assets tests. Starting a super pension can change that treatment. Once they reach Age Pension age, their super is generally assessed even if they are still working.
Because these details can change the household’s income, check the consequences before starting an income stream or making a large withdrawal.
Make room for different daily routines
The person who has stopped work may be keen for weekday outings or a long holiday. The person still working may have limited leave and want quieter weekends. Discuss which activities you want to enjoy together and which each person can pursue independently.
Travel plans benefit from some detail. A few shorter trips may fit the first stage, with a longer trip planned around a later retirement date. Consider the cost and available leave alongside any health reasons for travelling sooner.
Talk about responsibilities at home as well. More time at home can change who handles errands, household tasks or care for parents and grandchildren. Agree on what each person is willing and able to take on, rather than leaving those expectations unspoken.
Leave room for plans to change
The second retirement date may arrive earlier than expected because of health, redundancy or caring needs. Moneysmart identifies these as common reasons retirement plans can change. Consider how the household would manage if the remaining employment income stopped sooner.
Once the first person has retired, set a date to review how things are working. Compare actual spending with the budget and talk about how each of you is finding the new routine. Some adjustments only become clear once you are living with the change.
Questions to discuss before either of you finishes work
- Why does each of us want to retire at our preferred time?
- How will we fund the period when only one of us is working?
- When can each of us access super, and how might pension eligibility change?
- What do we expect from shared time, travel and caring responsibilities?
- What would we change if the second retirement happened sooner?
At Wealth Optix, we take the time to understand both people’s priorities and how the household finances fit together. If you are considering different retirement dates, a conversation with Marissa can help you explore the stages ahead and the decisions that deserve attention now.
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General information
This article provides general information only and does not take into account your personal objectives, financial situation or needs. Consider your circumstances and seek appropriate financial or tax advice before acting. Superannuation access and government payment eligibility depend on individual circumstances and the applicable rules.
Wealth Optix Pty Ltd is a Corporate Authorised Representative (No. 001321543) and Marissa de Saint Quentin is an Authorised Representative (No. 001003145) of Spark Advisors Australia Pty Ltd ABN 34 122 486 935 AFSL 380552.